it is hard to share, the thought of having someone else the thing that means a lot to you. the idea that you have no control over your thing when it is being used but they say that after used your thing they’ll give it to you. I just had that same incident just then and it is almost like a fear of not getting it back comes over you. the yearning of having it come back to you is evident. this is only temporarily that’s what you keep saying. this is wrong you know but it is just what you feel. therefore, it is horrible to be stingy, selfish, but it is so easy to do because that’s the only thing you know to do at that moment. then I looked for the definition of sharing and this is what I found use, participate in, enjoy, receive. this is what sharing means to people and others. share with others even in the bible God says in his word that he loves a cheerful giver. 2 Corinthians 9:7